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Apparently my life is an episode of Real Housewives of Some Place or Basketball Wives or something.
A former coworker hates me (full on HATES) because she thinks I'm after her man (who is still on my platoon at work).
For real, people. I don't date, haven't expressed any interest in this guy (he's not even my type), don't even get NEAR married/non-single men, and she thinks I'm trying to go after her man.
To the point where another coworker had to call me and talk to me about it to make sure I didn't want her man because of the upcoming girls' night out that all the females are doing. (Apparently we can bring friends, and because this woman is friends with several people she's invited.) Because as far as I can tell, this woman was either refusing to go if I went, or saying I needed to be uninvited or something. No one has entertained that notion, but this woman's jealousy is notorious.
Honestly, people, what gets me is that I'm dealing with a dramatic woman who has issues. And her issues lead to projecting her insecurities onto other people. It's like bad reality TV where superficial women have to create drama to get airtime. Except I'm not getting paid for this crap!
ETA: I didn't find out we could invite friends until after our trip was full. It's pole dancing class. If I'd known, initially I'd have invited my sister. Now, given all the drama, inviting my sister would either be a brilliant idea (she'd rock at pole dancing and have a blast and I'd have someone to talk to) or it would be a nightmare (my sister is confrontational and protective and would probably get into it with the former coworker, instead of taking my tack of ignoring the drama and acting like the adult).
A former coworker hates me (full on HATES) because she thinks I'm after her man (who is still on my platoon at work).
For real, people. I don't date, haven't expressed any interest in this guy (he's not even my type), don't even get NEAR married/non-single men, and she thinks I'm trying to go after her man.
To the point where another coworker had to call me and talk to me about it to make sure I didn't want her man because of the upcoming girls' night out that all the females are doing. (Apparently we can bring friends, and because this woman is friends with several people she's invited.) Because as far as I can tell, this woman was either refusing to go if I went, or saying I needed to be uninvited or something. No one has entertained that notion, but this woman's jealousy is notorious.
Honestly, people, what gets me is that I'm dealing with a dramatic woman who has issues. And her issues lead to projecting her insecurities onto other people. It's like bad reality TV where superficial women have to create drama to get airtime. Except I'm not getting paid for this crap!
ETA: I didn't find out we could invite friends until after our trip was full. It's pole dancing class. If I'd known, initially I'd have invited my sister. Now, given all the drama, inviting my sister would either be a brilliant idea (she'd rock at pole dancing and have a blast and I'd have someone to talk to) or it would be a nightmare (my sister is confrontational and protective and would probably get into it with the former coworker, instead of taking my tack of ignoring the drama and acting like the adult).