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Family drama again. I'm going to do the short and concise version, bulleted.
- Brother in law is filing for legal separation today. Reconciliation is not an option. I feel for him so much, but this is best for him.
- Sister has definitely been having an affair for the past month, as evidenced by 200 pages of emails. Emails are printed out and saved to CD for legal purposes, along with all other information regarding her activity and whereabouts.
- Dad read two lines of emails and got sick. Mom read two pages and got sick. BIL read all of them and is beyond sick. He's beyond devestated.
- We know where she is and with who. Important for future reference, but not that anyone is telling her.
- Brother in law's family is impossible with communication and avoiding the topic. My parents have been at J.'s house every night with him.
- My sister is a bitch.
- Brother in law still felt it was important for my sister to go on the family beach trip so she'd have some form of communication with us. I hated to do it, but I kiboshed that. If she went to the beach I'd scream and yell at her and it wouldn't do anyone any good. I haven't been able to coherently put together the level of my anger at her in words, yet. Will eventually.
- She was originally going to leave my BIL on the day of my grandfather's birthday party and skip that. Her selfish knows no bounds.
- Found out that I compartmentalize very well, which may be good or bad. On the good side, I can do other things and function well at them. It may be a product of the fact that I've known my sister was capable of this for at least ten years. On the other hand, when the emotions do come out, I end up crying so much I get a migraine. Today? Migraine.
- Brother in law is filing for legal separation today. Reconciliation is not an option. I feel for him so much, but this is best for him.
- Sister has definitely been having an affair for the past month, as evidenced by 200 pages of emails. Emails are printed out and saved to CD for legal purposes, along with all other information regarding her activity and whereabouts.
- Dad read two lines of emails and got sick. Mom read two pages and got sick. BIL read all of them and is beyond sick. He's beyond devestated.
- We know where she is and with who. Important for future reference, but not that anyone is telling her.
- Brother in law's family is impossible with communication and avoiding the topic. My parents have been at J.'s house every night with him.
- My sister is a bitch.
- Brother in law still felt it was important for my sister to go on the family beach trip so she'd have some form of communication with us. I hated to do it, but I kiboshed that. If she went to the beach I'd scream and yell at her and it wouldn't do anyone any good. I haven't been able to coherently put together the level of my anger at her in words, yet. Will eventually.
- She was originally going to leave my BIL on the day of my grandfather's birthday party and skip that. Her selfish knows no bounds.
- Found out that I compartmentalize very well, which may be good or bad. On the good side, I can do other things and function well at them. It may be a product of the fact that I've known my sister was capable of this for at least ten years. On the other hand, when the emotions do come out, I end up crying so much I get a migraine. Today? Migraine.
