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Dating is about getting to know someone. If you're comfortable with them from the get go, you want to see if more will develop, even if there aren't any (or many) feelings outright.

I wasn't thinking exclusivity with this guy (especially given how he wouldn't freaking touch me - which is explained now). I was just thinking he was worth more than two dates and worth getting to know.

But now, considering that someone has posted something on Facebook that is definitive proof that as of this past weekend, he had no problems touching another girl (holding hands even), I'd say it's safe to say that he's done. No big. I wasn't invested. I think the part that bugs me is that he was a chicken-shit about it and he didn't tell me that he had feelings for someone else. We had four date over the course of four or five weeks. It's easy to meet someone you click with in less time than that. No hard feelings. But he came to my house for dinner Friday night and was vaguely judgmental about my cats and complained about the drive. At the least he could have said something about how we're definitely just friends now.