My family did one of their "let's piss off Heather" things today.
Even after saying "please email me if you find out the visitation/funeral information, because you know how this family can be about communication", my sister still failed to email me, meaning I didn't know that there was visitation tonight for my great-uncle.
My grandmother didn't call anybody, which is normal for her, so not surprised there, even if it does piss me off. Mom had to call and found out late, which explains why I wasn't notified yesterday, but all day today she and my sister and my dad were planning to go to the visitation and no one said ANYTHING to me. To top it off, my sister, who KNEW that I wanted to be told, didn't even bother, but sent me an email about a bachelorette party and where she's honeymooning.
I can't win for freaking losing in this family. For some reason I'm the only one who even BOTHERS to think that everyone needs to be notified of stuff. I'm the only one who has a clue that not everyone is aware of what's going on all the time.
The really annoying part is, I couldn't go anyway. I'm pissed and I'm sure they'll use the "but you couldn't go" as an excuse. They wouldn't have known I couldn't go if I hadn't called to talk about American Idol, for God's sake!
ETA: Oh, and I sent a really pissy email to them so they'd have to deal tomorrow with forgetting me. My passive is fun.
ETA2: According to my mom, who called when she got home, she did send me an email today. That I never got. So now to send an apologetic email to my sister, but a stern email to both that if there's a definite time attached to something, I WILL reply that I got the message, so if I don't, there's a chance I didn't. Don't assume. Especially since email is apparently working its last bitchy nerve with me on other fronts.
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