A question.
How does one tell a guy nicely, thanks for the flowers, but I'm not interested in dating you?
This is why I don't date. Geek girl tendencies mean not understanding how to play the "game". Oddly enough, I get that some folks are capable of playing "I think of you as just a friend" card successfully with no ill will, and I'd really like to play that card well, but...
I'm a geek girl.
*sigh* And I'm being overly dramatic and drama queeny about it (believe me, I've worn out the mantra on my parents and
bubblesbrnaid - my mom told me to be glad I got flowers from a guy, that it's sweet). But he's a nice guy that I don't want to hurt. I've been on the flip side before and get annoyed by a lack of honesty from guys. So I know I have to be up front and honest. But argh! And I don't want to fall back on the excuses (that are valid) that 1) he's going through a divorce and 2) he smokes.
How does one tell a guy nicely, thanks for the flowers, but I'm not interested in dating you?
This is why I don't date. Geek girl tendencies mean not understanding how to play the "game". Oddly enough, I get that some folks are capable of playing "I think of you as just a friend" card successfully with no ill will, and I'd really like to play that card well, but...
I'm a geek girl.
*sigh* And I'm being overly dramatic and drama queeny about it (believe me, I've worn out the mantra on my parents and
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