I have brain freeze, thanks to a vanilla milkshake from Cook Out.
Yes, I'm taunting everyone.
Just on the home front, we're having drama with my sister.
( Drama )The big question from me is this, because I've had one person today tell me I was wrong (a coworker), but I'm sorry...I don't see how I'm wrong.
The big problem with teh whole situation with my sister is that one of her friends keeps putting her up. This is the second time my sister has "left" my BIL. BIL doesn't know about the first time (I only found out about it much later). This friend was actually looking for an apartment with Katie the first time. Personally, I think this friend needs to butt the hell out. First off, a marriage is different from a dating situation. Two people dating have a fight...it's one thing to take your friend in then. When a married couple fights, they have a responsibility to work that out that doesn't exist for dating couples. Secondly, you can't work out problems by one person living 30 miles away and refusing to talk. By harboring Katie, Sarah is just compounding the problem. THirdly, what kind of stupid IS Sarah to look for an apartment with a married woman? Sarah can't afford an apartment of her own, so what does she think is going to happen if Katie and she get an apartment and then they work things out?
The end of it all for me is that friends are there to support each other and be there for each other and to help each other through problems, but when it comes to marriage, there are only two people, and those two people are the ones who have to deal. And getting in the way of their dealing does no good. It's not like Sarah is trying to help them work it out by playing intermediary (not that it would do any good).
Am I *completely* off base?